The Side Eye of Death

All my life,  I had to fight. I had to fight homophobia. I had to fight racism. I had to fight trade from robbing me after we fucked. A butch queen ain’t safe in a world dominated by toxic masculinity, Continue reading The Side Eye of Death

The Unofficial Atlanta Black Gay Pride Tips: The 2016 Remix

It’s that time year again when black gays, lesbians, and transgendereds from around the globe make their annual pilgrimage to Atlanta Black Gay Pride during Labor Day Weekend. Celebrating its 20th anniversary, this year’s prides festivities are sure to be Continue reading The Unofficial Atlanta Black Gay Pride Tips: The 2016 Remix

Don’t Be A Shady Gay, Be a Nice Gay: Revisited

Note: This post was post was originally published 2 years ago and in the wake of the Orlando shootings, I decided to republish it with the hopes that we as a community can establish a true bristerhood. Plus it’s LBGT Continue reading Don’t Be A Shady Gay, Be a Nice Gay: Revisited

Broken Silence: A Commentary on the Club Pulse Shooting

To be honest, writing this post was very difficult but therapeutic for me. Never in a million years did I think I would write such a post, especially for this website. However, my blog is a reflection of my current Continue reading Broken Silence: A Commentary on the Club Pulse Shooting

Yo Jimmie, I’m Tired of Hearing About My Friend’s Sexcapades

For this month’s edition of “Yo Jimmie, Fix My Life”, we have a reader who is tired of hearing about his best friend’s sexual escapades and he need assistance in how to discuss this issue with his friend. Like always, Continue reading Yo Jimmie, I’m Tired of Hearing About My Friend’s Sexcapades

Over 30, Gay, and Can’t Find A Date: 4 Tips to Improve Your Dating Life.

Hi, my name is Jimmie and I’m officially an older gay man. Yes, I know that 35 (my real age btw) is still considered young. However, for gay world, I’m one foot away from being in the retirement village. In Continue reading Over 30, Gay, and Can’t Find A Date: 4 Tips to Improve Your Dating Life.

Moving to ATL is Liking Moving to the Land of Oz?

Atlanta, Georgia. The Black Gay Capital of the World. Black Hollywood. The former home of Freaknik’ 95. The current home of three losing sports teams(two new stadiums under construction with hopes of these eventually winning, side note) and where every Continue reading Moving to ATL is Liking Moving to the Land of Oz?