My Teenage Love Affair, Part 2: Gin Will Make You Sin

This post is based on a true story. However, some instances have been changed to protect the identity of some people involved in the story. This post is dedicated to the late E. Lynn Harris, James Earl Hardy, and Emil Continue reading My Teenage Love Affair, Part 2: Gin Will Make You Sin

Me and Mr. Wrong Get Along So Good

Note: This is Part One of a two-part series that I’m working on. Part One focuses on my last three relationships and what I’ve learned from each of them. Stay tuned for final part of the series. Enjoy. I think Continue reading Me and Mr. Wrong Get Along So Good

Hurt or Horny: How Music Has Played a Role in My Dating Life.

I want to dedicate this post to the original “Nasty Girl,” Denise Matthews aka Vanity. Thank you for being a creative influence in my life. R.I.P. (01/04/1959-02/15/2016). “You need to get into King’s album. I think you will like them, Continue reading Hurt or Horny: How Music Has Played a Role in My Dating Life.

Over 30, Gay, and Can’t Find A Date: 4 Tips to Improve Your Dating Life.

Hi, my name is Jimmie and I’m officially an older gay man. Yes, I know that 35 (my real age btw) is still considered young. However, for gay world, I’m one foot away from being in the retirement village. In Continue reading Over 30, Gay, and Can’t Find A Date: 4 Tips to Improve Your Dating Life.

My So-Called Introverted Dating Life

I have a confession to make: I’m an introvert. I know that’s hard to believe. After all I am a blogger, semi-well known, and allegedly have a nude Tumblr page (keyword: alleged). However, most writers, artists, and entertainers are introverts: Continue reading My So-Called Introverted Dating Life

4 LESSONS I’VE LEARNED ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS BY WATCHING THE ID CHANNEL

Every weekend,  I find myself watching 24 hour marathons of the Investigation Discovery Channel(aka the ID Channel). Kidnapping, murder, stalking, and other crimes are the major theme of the shows on this channel. With shows such as Evil Kin, Homicide Continue reading 4 LESSONS I’VE LEARNED ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS BY WATCHING THE ID CHANNEL

Jill Scott’s Six Month Dating Rule

I’m going on record to say that Jill Scott can’t do no wrong in my book. I fell in love with her music when I was at the female strip club in Birmingham in the early 2000s. Girlfriend was gyrating Continue reading Jill Scott’s Six Month Dating Rule