The Side Eye of Death

All my life,  I had to fight. I had to fight homophobia. I had to fight racism. I had to fight trade from robbing me after we fucked. A butch queen ain’t safe in a world dominated by toxic masculinity, Continue reading The Side Eye of Death

I’ve Missed You Like Crazy: Where Have I’ve Been

Don’t call it a comeback, I’ve been here for years. It’s a new year and a new outlook on life, especially for this blog. I have some explaining to do. At least three months have passed since my last written Continue reading I’ve Missed You Like Crazy: Where Have I’ve Been

Special Announcement!!!

I know you’re wondering where the hell have I been and why haven’t I updated this site in about a month? Well to answer your question, I’ve been working on my new venture…The GrabYaJimmie Podcast. Yes, I’m getting into the Continue reading Special Announcement!!!

7 Tips to Get You Ready For #Cuffing Season2016

Exit #Summer16. Enters #Fall2016. Leaves are slowing changing into gold, orange, or brown hues as they trickle slowly to the ground. The pumpkin spice invasion has landed with everything pumpkin-flavored ranging from lattes to condoms. Hoodies and grey sweatpants become Continue reading 7 Tips to Get You Ready For #Cuffing Season2016

The Unofficial Atlanta Black Gay Pride Tips: The 2016 Remix

It’s that time year again when black gays, lesbians, and transgendereds from around the globe make their annual pilgrimage to Atlanta Black Gay Pride during Labor Day Weekend. Celebrating its 20th anniversary, this year’s prides festivities are sure to be Continue reading The Unofficial Atlanta Black Gay Pride Tips: The 2016 Remix

I’ve Missed You, Old Friend: Rekindling Broken Friendships.

“Hey Jimmie. This is Pokemon(so not his real name) and I was wondering if you’re open to meet up for dinner this week? I would love to catch up with you. Let me know.” Pokemon(again not his real name) is Continue reading I’ve Missed You, Old Friend: Rekindling Broken Friendships.

Yo Jimmie, My Boyfriend Wants to Record Me Having Sex With His Homie

For this month’s edition of “Yo Jimmie, Fix My Life”, we have a reader whose boyfriend is not only asking him to bust it open for the Vine(do people still use that?) but also want him to have sex with Continue reading Yo Jimmie, My Boyfriend Wants to Record Me Having Sex With His Homie